breaking up
Friday 5: What Not to Say During a Break Up

So you think you want to break up with your significant other. I’m sure there were reasons that led you to this. Maybe their breath smelled. Maybe they always said YOLO. Whatever the reason may be, your mind is made up. But. You have to consider how you tell them. If you say these things, you may get slapped or have an overly dramatic and embarrassing situation weeks later.*
When a Relationship Ends, Should You De-friend?
Struggling with whether or not to de-friend your ex? If you can check off ANY of the following boxes then I’d say yes.
How to Fight Fair
If life were a Rom-Com, you’d meet someone you’re crazy about, fall in love, have one big fight, and then live happily ever after. But in the real world, fighting is a fact of life for long term relationships. And for that reason, it’s absolutely essential that you learn to fight fair! Here’s how:
Dueces
Knowing when to break up varies in different relationships. When talking about teen couples there are many different signifiers. From my experience, high school relationships do not last for a few reasons:
What to Do When You HATE Your Friend’s Significant Other
Especially if you’re single, it can be tough when a good friend gets into a serious relationship. That relationship means less time for you and possibly, more time you have to spend as a third wheel (or double dating). But what if you HATE your friend’s new flame? Take a deep breath, and follow these steps:
Sometimes No Is the Best Answer
Rejection: it hurts. No one likes hearing the word “no” come out of anyone’s mouth, especially from a boyfriend or girlfriend. But those two letters could be the reason you don’t become pregnant or contract an STI. No matter how hard or uncomfortable it is, we need to know it’s okay to say no to sex. Teens must think twice before having sex, because once it’s done, there is no going back.
What to do When You’ve Been Dumped
So you’ve just been dumped. How do you feel? Angry? Depressed? Embarrassed? Worthless? Like you’ll never feel happy again? Like you’ve been thrown into the deep end of a pool with your hands tied together? Know this: it get’s better. I promise! We’ve all been there, we’ve all felt this way, and we’ve all moved on…eventually. How do you get from here (feeling like crap) to there (feeling like a real person again)? Three steps:
Friday Five: 5 Things to Do Before Becoming FBO (Face Book Official)
Thinking about making your relationship FBO? These are the 5 things you have to do before changing your relationship status:
It started out so perfectly…romantic dates, butterflies in your stomach, a permanent grin on your face. Lately, though, that spark seems to be missing. But that’s no reason to end things right now…or is it?
Everyone knows that dating has its ups and downs—even the BEST relationships can seem like a train wreck if you catch the couple during a rough patch. But there comes a time when you really can’t rationalize anymore—it’s over and it might have been for a long time. So how do you know when enough is enough? Tell us your stories of overdue breakups, holding on for too long, and how you figured out that the end should’ve come a looong time ago.
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