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Thinking of Losing it on Prom Night or After Graduation?

So it’s prom and your boyfriend rented a hotel room. Or it’s graduation and you figure you better lose it now before college. If you’re planning on your first time to coinciding with a major life event, here are some things to keep in mind:

Stay Out Loud: Do You Think Teens Regret Not Waiting Longer to Have Sex?

People talk a LOT about sex...who's having it, who isn't having it, and everything in between. And that got us wondering about people who have had sex...

Stay Out Loud: What is the Biggest Mistake Guys Make in Relationships?

Relationships—for the good or for that bad—take up a LOT of our time. And we all know that nobody is perfect, which got us to thinking: what are the biggest mistakes that GUYS make in relationships?

Stay Out Loud: Is There Pressure on Teens to Have Sex or Be Physical in Relationships?

Pressure is all around us from what we deal with at school to stuff that happens at home. But we wondered whether pressure to have sex or be physically intimate in relationships was a big deal to teens...

How to Know if You Have an STI

 

Spoiler Alert!  Unless you get tested by your doctor, there is no definitive way to know if you have a sexually transmitted infection (STI). It’s easy to fall into the trap of diagnosing yourself/your partner based on certain facts, pictures you’ve found on the Internet, or your own intuition. Unfortunately, it’s just not that simple. The following are some faulty assumptions people commonly make about STIs.  

A Backup Plan Instead of Babies

When we realized the condom broke it was like seeing a whole new life I wasn’t ready for suddenly flash before my eyes. There I was covered in diaper cream, wet wipes, and baby poop, my head cocked to one side explaining into the phone, “Sorry, dude—I can’t go.  It’s my turn to watch the little one.” Then, I’m on the front porch, holding a toddler’s hand as I wave to my friends, cars packed and music blaring, as they depart for all the adventures of college. Finally, I see myself crouched next to a tiny bed, being screeched at to read the bedtime story one more time (for the bazillionth time) even as the last seconds of the final round of March Madness tick away in another room. 

 
Would you consider dating someone if you knew that they believed in abstinence until marriage?

In your grandparent’s day and maybe even in your parents it wasn’t uncommon for people to wait until after they’d tied the knot to have sex.  This generation is a different story.  Sex is very much a part of teen culture.  If you don’t believe it, read the lyrics to Katy Perry’s “Teenage Dream”.  It’s in our TV shows, music, and magazines.  It’d be easy to look at this generation’s obsession with sex and assume that everyone is having it, but what about those teens who still want to wait?  

The temptation to have sex, especially as a teen, is no doubt great.  Believe it or not, there are teen couples who don’t even kiss in order to avoid the temptation.  Some might call this extreme, while others might see it as romantic.  It’s easy if you both agree, but what if you like someone who has different beliefs about sex before marriage than you do?  Would you respect their beliefs or drop them like a bad habit?  Let us know what you think!   

The temptation to have sex, especially as a teen, is no doubt great.  Believe it or not, there are teen couples who don’t even kiss in order to avoid the temptation.  Some might call this extreme, while others might see it as romantic.  It’s easy if you both agree, but what if you like someone who has different beliefs about sex before marriage than you do?  Would you respect their beliefs or drop them like a bad habit?  Let us know what you think!

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The Fashion Advice I Wish I Had at 15

 

There’s nothing more annoying than being told what to wear.  When I was 15, if my mom or dad (or anyone else) told me that what I was wearing was too revealing I would roll my eyes and tell them to get a life: Seriously? Stay out of my business and find something more productive to worry about.  

Missing a Moment

The fact that my parents didn’t like Meena, my girlfriend senior year, wasn’t so bad. They knew better than to make a big deal of their disapproval or tell a teenager whom to date. The problem arrived, however, when my mom came home early from work one day and caught Meena and me taking our lunch break at home...in my bed.... After she sternly commanded: "get your butt to class," I made record time getting dressed and to the school building. 

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